“My Partner Is Requesting I Buy A Wedding Dress Of At Least N500k For Her” — Young Doctor Seeks Advice

This man needs your advice…
Good day everyone, i’m presently confused as to what I shud do. I have had a court wedding early this year with my wife. She is based oversea with parents. I’m  a young Doctor in the NYSC. We are planning our traditional and church wedding here in Nigeria for December.
Meanwhile I realised when we started talking about how to plan and church what can of wedding we expecting. Shocking to me was when she asked me how much is her wedding dress. She asked me this after I told her I budgeted around 800k for the wedding.
She asked me how much do I want to buy her wedding dress. And I replied something around 50k at most. She wondered, and said what kind of dress is that. That her dressing is @ leaest 500k? I honestly became very weak. I tried explaining things to her but she just behaved like someone who doesn’t understand the economic realities of the moment in Nigeria.
She dropped the call and I had to soul searched myself and came to the question, have I joined myself to the wrong person in life. What can I do at this moment? If I need a divorce for our court marriage, how do I go about it. Becos I don’t understand the hell that she wants by asking me to raise 500k for just a dress u wear for one day. I know my future is bright and that’s what am so much concerned about.
PS: I’m a young Doctor, NYSC. Just starting out my life
People should kindly advice and guide me on what to do. Thanks
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